DHT: Fix thread-safety issue in AbstractWriteBuffer

There is a data corruption issue with the 'running' list if a
background thread schedules something onto the buffer while the
application thread is also using it.

Change-Id: I5ba78b98b6632965d677a9c8f209f0cf8320cc3d
Signed-off-by: Shawn O. Pearce <spearce@spearce.org>